Wednesday, November 18, 2009

a socially awkward experiment

after experiencing an especially socially awkward situation today, i'm running an experiment and i'd love feedback if you have any.

Scene
  • an elevator
  • an office building
  • Pittsburgh 
    • (but could be any elevator, in any building,  in any city)

Background
  • when i am on an elevator by myself, i always walk to either side, push the button i need, and stay on the side, typically leaned against the wall until my stop
  • if i happen to not be close to the wall, and someone else gets on, i immediately move against the wall
  • i like my space.
  • i do not like when people are standing awkwardly close to me when other options are available
Story
  • i get on an elevator this afternoon
  • there is a woman standing in the absolute center of the elevator, with equal empty space on all sides
  • i walk on, heading to the left side, to push the button
  • the woman doesn't move
  • i lean against the wall, looking toward the door
  • the woman doesn't move
  • i realize the woman is actually standing at an angle, rather than looking directly ahead at the door.
  • her angle happens to be in my direction
  • the woman continues to stand in the middle of the elevator, facing me, rather than the door
  • there is less than one foot of space between her and myself
  • the average dimensions of a passenger elevator are 51" x 80"
  • this leaves 39" x 68" feet of other space where she could be standing (this might be wrong, i'm bad at math, you get the idea)
Results
  • if you are the only person in an elevator, feel free to stand wherever you want
  • if someone else gets in, it is polite to move to one side or the other, so as not to invade personal space
  • if you happen to be turned a certain direction, it is polite to shift your stance so as not to stare
Further Research
  • when you are on an elevator by yourself, where do you stand?
  • do you change position when someone else joins you?
  • am i completely crazy for being frustrated by this lady?
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